tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7225634353153604993.post8132850368565286958..comments2016-05-20T11:18:38.185-07:00Comments on Mulling Things Over: I'm Donetalimullinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16007868846412941180noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7225634353153604993.post-17478347014236272322014-02-16T14:43:16.216-08:002014-02-16T14:43:16.216-08:00I think I can comment, finally (having resurrected...I think I can comment, finally (having resurrected my long-abandoned LJ account), so here goes.<br /><br />I think a big part of the reason this whole thing has been so frustrating is that you obviously don't have all the information to make sense of it. I've had friendships end before (who hasn't?), but there was always a reason that both parties were aware of. Also, we didn't keep up a friendly pretense on facebook, all the while ignoring huge life events (like babies being born) that even a casual acquaintance would acknowledge. I mean, it's totally normal for people to drift, or just have less time for each other as their lives change, but that's not what's happened, here. <br /><br />I have friends I might get to see twice a year, but I still love them madly and I'm always thrilled when we do finally get together. You can still love someone even if there isn't really room for them in your daily life; that's part of growing up and having a family, I think. Maybe she doesn't feel like she even needs friends outside of her family anymore, but I still think she's crazy to throw away someone who's cared about her as long as you have. <br /><br />Oh well. I hope you get, if not answers, then at least a little closure with all this. In the meanwhile, I'll be counting the days until our next soulmate datenight (Veronica Mars, baby!!).<br /><br />Hugs and squishes,<br />your lifetime friend Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com